I will be the first to admit that I am not an elite member of the personals section. I have responded to a few ads (and developed a few good relationships -- nothing serious yet), but I have learned a lot about the terminology used in the ads. Here is a small glossary of the terms found in various personal ads, as well as, IRC channels.


4-real the person is not interested in superficial relationships, liars, or exaggeration.
69 Simultaneous fellatios, belly to belly, head to tail.
AFAIK As Far As I Know
aggressive like to screw vigoursly, even violently
Australian Active likes to be the partner who licks in Australian sex.
Australian Passive likes to be the partnet who is licked in Australian sex.
Australian Sex To start one partner licks the back of the nexk and shoulders of his lover, then lifts his tongue and moves it a tiny bit down the spine. Then he slowly works his way back up the spine to lick the back of the neck and shoulders, perhaps moving around to the side or front to lick the side of the neck or kiss the mouth. He then lifts his tongue and places it a tiny bit further down the spine than the last time. You take 15 to 60 minutes to work your way down to the anus and beyond. That's the Australian part. From there, this often leads to rimming and screwing.
azz ass
B&D Bondage and Discipline
b-boy Bottom boy, someone who likes being screwed.
bare back fucking screwing without using condoms.
BBL Be back later
bear a hairy person, with beard, big and heavy
bestiality interspecies sex, where one partner is a human
bi bi-sexual. Enjoys sex with both men and women
biz business, heterosexual intercourse
blk black
bj (blow job) to suck or lick a guy's cock usually until he has an orgasm.
bondage tying up with ropes or leather restraints (or handcuffs) as part of sex
Boston marriage a relationship in which female partners live together without necessarily having a sexual relationship
bottom likes to be screwed, or the person who is screwed. He is still called the bottom even if he positions himself above his partner or if he is the one doing most of the moving. See also Greek Passive
boop to screw
boyz young males
BRB be right back (irc term)
buff gym-toned
buggery a legal term coviering both screwing and bestiality
butch masculine
chicken a gay teenager. In Chinese culture, a female prostitute
chicken queen someone who prefers teenage sexual partners
chubby chaser someone who prefers fat sexual partners
clean disease and drug free.
closeted one who holds their sexual preference to be private, secret or clandestine.
cock ring a metal or leather ring that wraps around the base of the penis. It is used to maintain or increase an erection.
cruising going out looking for sex
cut circumsized
cyber short for cybersex. Private arousing sexual talk on Internet Chat.
daddy a man who likes a young lover to whom he plays a fatherly role.
dildo an artificial penis to use in screwing or masturbation. A dildo does not have a vibrator.
discipline training or treatment to correct or punish.
discreet a promise not to mention your existence to others. It implies the person lives with others who do not know he is gay, and wants you to be careful in how you word any messages you leave.
doggie style screwing with one partner on all fours, and the other screwing from behind.
endowed possessing along or thick penis.
exhibitionist somebody who likes others to watch when he has sex or somebody who likes displaying himself without a partner.
farm sex interspecies sex when one partner is human and the other a farm animal most commonly a goat, sheep, miniature horse, hrose, cow or pig.
felch to such semen from the anus, and return it to the mouth of the person being screwed. Felching is not considered safe sex.
fellatio the medical term for giving a blow job
FF fist fucking
finger fucking to insert a finger into the anus of a guy while you are giving him a blow job
foreskin a hood of skin that covers the glans to keep it sensitive.
Fr/A French Active
Fr/P French Passive
French Active A person who gives blow jobs.
French Passive A person who likes to receive blow jobs.
French Sex blow jobs
fuck buddy someone you have casual sex with one on a regular basis.
GBM Gay Black Male
glans medical term for the head of the penis, the mushroom shaped part.
glory hole a hole in a washroom wall through wich a guy inserts his penis to have a blow job or to screw.
golden shower urinating on a person
Gr/A Greek Active
Gr/P Greek Passive
Greek Active likes to screw, or is the one who does the screwing.
Greek Passive likes to be screwed, or the guy who is screwed.
GWM Gay White Male
Harvard Style screwing by inserting the penis between the thighs of another guy
HIV+ carrying the Human Immuniodeficiency Virus (HIV)
homoamorous Loving the same sex.
homophile literally: liking people of the same sex.
homosexual preferring sex with people of the same sex.
IRL in real life (IRC term)
irrumatio medical term for screwing by inserting the penis between the tighs of another guy.
ISO in search of
LOL laughing out loud (IRC Term)
LTR long term relationship
masc masculine
massochism enjoys verbal or physical mistreatment or pain.
master the dominant partner in an S&M relationship
masterbation rubbing the penis with a hand.
Montana Masturbation (i.e.: Lingam Massage) a Tantric sort of masturbation that uses very delicate gentle stimulation. You attempt to keep the muscles in the penis completely relaxed. If they tense up, you must stop any stimulation until you can relax them again. This is extremely frustrating, but leads to extreme orgasms.
OIF occassionally intimate friend
pereneum the area between your scrotum and anus.
Princeton Rub screwing by inserting the penis between the thighs of another guy.
pvt private
rim to lick the anus of another, and possibly to insert the tongue into the anus.
ROFL rolling on the floor laughing.
S&M sadism and masochism
sadism enjoyment of inflicting pain
top likes to screw.
toys dildos, vibrators, cock rings, beads, and similar sexually stimulating devices.
twink a cute young male.
u/c uncut
uncut uncircumcised
versatile likes to both screw and be screwed
vibrator a penis shaped device that vibrates.